Home Is Where the Heart Is

The lives of most Americans revolve around their homes. The percentage of Americans owning the house, or apartment, they live in is the highest among western nations. Most Americans still live in “single-family dwellings,” that is, houses which usually have a front and backyard. Contrary to a common belief, only about 5 percent of all Americans live in mobile homes.

Most of America has a more or less four-season climate, and the rhythms of life around the house tend to follow the seasons. Spring means that the storm windows must be taken down in those areas where it gets cold in winter. The screen windows, intended to keep out insects, need to be cleaned or painted and installed. After the winter, the garden needs a lot of work. In summer, the lawn must be mown every week or so. It’s a good time to scrape and paint whatever is wood on the house. The car gets washed every week or so. As soon as autumn’s leaves begin to fall, the storm windows need to be readied and put up again. In winter, the walks and driveways must be kept clear of ice and snow. There is always something that needs to be done around the house, and most American homeowners do it themselves.

Shopping that is the big food shopping, is usually done once a week at the local supermarket. Most Americans, like most people everywhere, are always trying to keep their budgets under control, and always going over. The food will often be paid for by check. Most stores will pack your groceries for you, and many still take them out to your car. The big brown bags traditionally provided can be reused later for a lot of things, from masks for the children to garbage bags and wrapping paper for packages.

In many American families children are expected to help around the house. The “chores” might include vacuuming the carpet, washing and waxing floors, cleaning windows, mowing the lawn, shoveling snow, keeping the car(s) clean, looking after the pets. Some families give a small amount of money, an allowance, to their children in exchange for these and similar chores. Other families simply expect such work to be shared by everyone in the family.

At the same time, many American middle-class families expect their children to find part-time jobs, especially as they enter their teens. This might be working at the local supermarket or service station, mowing lawns, delivering newspapers, or babysitting. In fact, about 75 percent of high school seniors work during the average school week.

In general, Americans feel that young people should appreciate the value of work and learn how to stand on their own two feet.

The common meal of the day is usually eaten in the evening. This varies in time according to family traditions and depending upon each family member’s schedule. It’s usually the only time of the day when everyone is home.

Most Americans today work no more than eight hours a day, five days a week at their jobs.

In the average American home, there is an enormous amount of activity. For the parents, there are perhaps courses at the local evening school or college. There are bridge and bowling clubs and golf leagues. There are public service organizations, lodges, temples, and clubs which sponsor a host of activities, many of them related to charitable work. There are PTA (Parent Teacher Association) meetings.

Many American children take (or are made to take) piano or other music lessons, dancing or ballet lessons, horseback riding, swimming, skiing, golf, tennis, and just about anything else that parents think will be good for their children.

Many adults and teenagers are involved in volunteer work.

Americans often talk about stress. Life is hectic, the pressure is on at work and school. The competition is intense. And working hard, Americans often have schedules that leave little room to just sit and do nothing. Americans also take shorter and fewer holidays and vacations than most people in other industrialized societies (a notable exception being Japan). Still, this emphasis on the stress of American daily life is frequently overdone, often by Americans who sometimes delight in telling others how busy they are.

One feature of American life is the frequent display of flags and other national symbols in the US. The “Star-Spangled Banner” and the flags of the states are found in many places and displayed on many occasions. To Americans, patriotismis largely a natural response to the nation’s history and its ideals.

Holidays in the US

Each of the 50 states establishes its own legal holidays. The federal government, through the President and Congress, can legally set holidays only for federal employees and for the District of Columbia. Most states, however, accept the federal legal holidays. Holidays for all federal offices, most state and local government offices, and many (but not all!) businesses are:

New Year’s Day (January 1)

Martin Luther King’s Birthday (third Monday in January)

Washington’s Birthday,sometimes called“Presidents’ Day”(third Monday in February)

Memorial Day (last Monday in May)

Independence Day (July 4)

Labor Day (first Monday in September)

Columbus Day (second Monday in October)

Veterans’ Day (November 11)

Thanksgiving Day (fourth Thursday in November)

Christmas Day (December 25)

Perhaps the two “most American” of the holidays are the Fourth of July - Independence Day - and Thanksgiving. The Fourth of July is like a big, nationwide birthday party. Yet, it’s a party that takes place in neighborhoods, on beaches or in parks, or on suburban lawns throughout the country. Some towns and cities have parades with bands and flags, and most politicians will try to give a patriotic speech or two, should anyone be willing to listen. But what makes the Fourth of July is the atmosphere and enjoyment of, for instance, the family beach party, with hot dogs and hamburgers, volleyball and softball, the fireworks and rockets at night (and, often, a sunburn and a headache the next morning). The nation’s birthday is also the nation’s greatest annual summer party.

Like Christmas, Thanksgiving is a day for families to come together. Traditional foods are prepared for the feast - turkey or ham, cranberry sauce and corn dishes, breads and rolls, and pumpkin pie. At the same time, Thanksgiving is a solemn occasion, a day to remember the many who are less well off, in America and throughout the world.

The many religious holidayssuch as Good Friday, Hanukkah, or Ramadanare observed, of course, by the religious, but they have no national, or official legal status.

There are many traditional holidays, observed by a large number of Americans, which are not official. Among these are Groundhog Day, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day, Mother’s Day, andHalloween.