How these experienced leaders rated themselves

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru When I interviewed these 70 leaders for The Language of Leaders, I was very conscious that these were some of the most experienced people I had ever met, many of whom were at the end of careers spanning five decades. I asked each of them to rate their communication skills, on a scale of 0 to 10. Inevitably they rated themselves (on average) around 7/10, the same as the hundreds of leaders who have done my Inspiration Quotient test. Such a mark is, I believe, unhelpful. It says: ‘Modesty forbids me from rating myself higher, so I should allow some room for improvement, but nevertheless give myself a good score.’ This meant I had to probe a bit deeper: ‘Are there occasions when you’d mark yourself very low or very high, and what made the difference?’

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru Now, I got much richer, more meaningful answers. Almost universally, they said there could be a wide variation from day to day. On some days, they would rank their performance as low as 2/10. On others they would give themselves 10 out of 10. So what was it that made such a big difference?

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru On the occasions when they gave themselves 2/10, they may have delivered their lines perfectly, with all the professionalism and theatrics they had been trained to use, but they walked away with little response or engagement from the audience. On the other hand, on those occasions when they gave themselves 10 out of 10, they may have stuttered, spat on the front row, or even repeated or fluffed their lines, but they felt an almost metaphysical connection with the audience. They resonated with the mood in the room, they addressed the issues that mattered and they persuaded people to their cause. They could see that their words were positively stirring the emotions of the people they were addressing.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru The lesson? Great communication is not about perfect oratory. It is about resonance and connection and engagement. It is about moving people. It is about how you make those people feel. It is not about monologue, it is about dialogue. It is not about being seen as inspiring – it is about making people feel inspired.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru On this basis, I believe every leader has it in them to be a great deal more inspiring. To do this they need to articulate a clear sense of purpose that provides a ‘true north’ for their leadership. They must also learn to listen more attentively, become more proficient conversationalists, bring more of their personality to their leadership, be more audience-centric and learn how to tell stories.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru These 70 leaders I interviewed knew – as I hope you do too – that you don’t communicate simply to provide information.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru As a leader, you communicate to inspire.

With grateful thanks

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru First, I would very much like to thank you for buying this book. I hope it helps to make you a more inspiring leader. (If you were one of the many thousands of people who also bought a copy of my first book, The Language of Leaders, double thanks.)

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru Thank you to all the leaders who gave me their time and their views, both for the first book and for this one. I hope I have done you justice.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru Thanks go to my daughter, Kirstin Kaszubowska, for finding me the font that has been used to create the figures in this book. (To my amazement, it is my own handwriting. If you’re interested in these sorts of things go to this site and create your very own at www.myfonts.com)

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru A big thank you also to Natalie Smith for her patience and creativity in translating my hand-drawn charts into those you see in this book.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru A special thank you must go to Jonathan Adler, who has read every chapter and provided terrific advice and counsel on what was working and what was not. His perspectives came from the experience of actually working with me, using some of these methods, to advise the leadership teams with whom we work.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru Special mention must go to Richard Spence for his help, especially in working with me to begin articulating my coaching methods years before these books were produced.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru Thank you to all at Kogan Page for their continued faith, with special mention to Matthew Smith, Helen Kogan and Nancy Wallace.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru Thank you again to Vicky Swales, my tireless and endlessly patient PA, who has provided such invaluable help (once again) with the manuscript.

How these experienced leaders rated themselves - student2.ru Finally, to my wife, Liz, thank you for your support, encouragement, proofreading and for taking so much of the load while I was being ruthlessly selfish with this book. You are now, and always will be, my inspiration.

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